Saturday, October 14, 2006
Good morning.
After knowing what I know. I feel extremely disgusted. I emphasis, extremely. I feel her pain, not like how she does, but I simply can't imagine how her state was at the moment in time. Sick humans, unbelievably selfish and undeniably heartless. You both know who you are. Didn't think I'd find out, did you? Did you actually think that you are not going to pay for this? Did you actually thought that the world would side you? Do you realise your relationship was, and still is, built on LIES? I don't care how old you may be. But what you did was bloody f***ing WRONG man. I thought my latest break up was shitty. I was wrong. Cuz now I realise that mine was just a speck of dust. What you both put her (and him) through is unforgivable.
Good luck lah eh. Good luck in trying to stay alive.
Bottom line, to me, you are just losers.
Went to check her blog out this morning. What she said is undeniably true.
Her actually words are, "guys, and i mean nice, really nice guys, when you wanna breakup, do not ever say can we still be friends again? don't be an asshole after what you have done ehhh. and also do not be another big asshole to say if you have any problems, you still can come to me or i still love you. sesungguhnye kata-kata yang sungguh tak manis tu masok akal okay,". She's so bloody damn right.
As a matter of fact, to every guy reading this. If you want to break up. Just do it okay. Go to the point, don't beat about the bush, don't say things the you obviously don't mean and DON'T, I emphasis, DON'T contradict yourself. I mean when you say, "I still love you," or, "You still can count on me," do you actually think that you are lightening the load on the poor girl? Ya sure she'll be happy for a day or two, but when she realises that you just say those things and don't mean it, do you have any idea how bloody hurtful it is? All the pain just kicks in again! The whole cycle starts again! She's back to square one. Why? Because at the break up you(the guy) said,"I still love you,". So don't make stupid claims during a break up okay!? I am not here to shot down any guy in paticular at all. I emphasis, AT ALL. All I'm doing here it to explain to the masculine world how their actions may mean one thing to them but another to the female. Thus depressing her. And in the worst case scenario, the poor girl commits suicide. Thanks to who? Thanks to you.
Men, grow up.
--- *Reiha@9:09 AM ---
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